What is your opinion on the belief that one can change their life by changing their thoughts and having a positive mindset?
14.06.2025 03:35
Habits or what we call as thoughts are almost impossible to change ( only 1 to2 percent people can do this and that too if the mentor is spiritual and has supernatural, otherworldly powers to convince )
Can a cunning, shrewd and stingy fellow invoke supernatural, paranormal or transcendental powers ?
Only after having a 7 course meal in a 7 star hotel; one realises that a road side restaurant ( dhaba ) was better( not always )
Have you ever lied to your family? What were the circumstances?
””” Mai ne mai main ik shikra yaar banaya ; Ik udari aisee maree fir watni na aaya “””
“” adtan na jandian , je Katia bhorian bhorian “
On social media the whole world of influencers are shouting at the top of their voice that u can manifest anything by changing ur thoughts.
yes one should be a realist but not a moronic optimist.
No !
“”one can change nothing without the will of god””
or
Without tasting few prettiest ; comely, enticing, buxom, bewitching, females in bed, one can’t know that beneath the smoothest skin is just stinking flesh, bones and elephantine dirt.
god is just waiting for ur only single tear and you will or can become master of this world.
“””””So Shakespeare said that never trust him that hath once broken faith””””
shakespear, Bernard shaw, Bertrand Russel all were of the opinion that once we have certain kind of mind set , then it’s difficult to give up the cardinal traits of personality.
Don’t think that if the book 📖 “” secret is Titanically successful; it’s ultimate truth””
Do straight guys like to have sex with men when they smoke meth?
why the universe will conspire to unite you both with all it’s might ?
“”Please Don’t get fixated on the concept of Yoga and kundalini etc””
Smearing urself with ashes like aghori sadhu’s or tantrics or yogis - is not the right way to become positive and experiences abundance and manifest all that u people unnecessarily crave for !
Can a 40-year-old date a 20-year-old?
“yes, through CBT ( cognitive behaviour therapy ) one can change ones negative thoughts to positive ones but the change doesn’t last and relapse or old patterns of thinking come back”
we all have a baseline of happiness. Those who win a billion dollars 💵 lottery; there happiness level comes down to baseline level within 15 days or a little more time. Why ?
4 billion people don’t have a penny in their pockets and at least 10000 self proclaimed philosophers on social media are talking about manifestation of money or anything is possible in few days. ( bastards playing with emotions of innocent penniless humans )
But please ignore these fake babas on u tube and don’t get unnecessarily mesmerised by their great “”articulation skills”. They become billionaires and you stupids ( innocent ) lose 10000 rupees and ur parents starve and die due to lack of decent medical treatment.
It’s not possible to be positive without having a clean 🧼 drinking water 🚰 or food 🥘.
Whatever I m writing ✍️, it relates to Maslow ‘s need hierarchy theory as well which I presume the readers know. Still a crisp description. According to him without fulfilling basic needs one cannot move to higher level need of Aesthetics and self actualisation.
But people here are missing the spiritual aspect.
Because ur love is pure, ur heart and soul is pure and ur final intentions are extremely pious.
In his unbelievable lines he said
What is the best way to end a relationship with someone who has future plans with you?
“””So in a nutshell ; since it’s difficult to change one’s mindset from negative to positive; don’t expect your life will change”””
if you and me don’t get water for 3 days, all positivity will fly away like a unfaithful 🦅 bird.
yes it’s true “ agar aap kisee ko shidat se chaho to saree kayanat, apko us se milane mai lag jatee hai “”Shahrukh Khan got the credit and writer got ..?
so this is fatalist philosophy and i do believe in it !
But there were some greater souls than Buddha like Kabir who was perhaps an illegitimate child born of Muslim parents and brought up by Hindu family ( not too sure ). Such souls are already evolved at the time of birth because of previous birth spiritual efforts and experiences.
it means , oh my mother; I fell in love with such a female who turned out to be unfaithful and made such a flight and never returned to me””
kabir je was a poor weaver and had a very ordinary looking wife but still knew that there is no difference between his wife and today’s miss world.
”” Don’t become gullible and please go for critical thinking when you are bombarded by “ manifestation through positive thinking “”
our pineal gland is responsible for secretion of MELETONIN and if it gets secreted ; the bliss is thousand times more than orgasm ; but it doesn’t mean prayer 🙏 can’t open ur third eye or stimulate your pineal gland !
Allport , in his trait theory , explained the concept of PROPRIUM . He explained in his theory of personality traits that first the hunter hunts for food but later on hunting becomes his habit or trait or thought process. Now he can’t give up hunting. So habits or thoughts don’t change.
So Buddha realised this as he had the best of everything and after enjoying all, it became too easy for him to leave all of it.
Sit at home and pray and u will get everything in life”
since our upbringing or socialisation results in such a personality make up that once established , it’s beyond change( few exceptions out of millions )
only after sitting behind the wheels of a luxurious 🚘 car , one realises that an auto’s journey is more enjoyable as u interact with strangers and many times encounter some philosopher or a noble soul which is not possible in a lonely car.
Thoughts And habits die hard.
Dr. Vikas who has Drishti institute for civil services said that since his parents were professors of Hindi ; so he did masters in Hindi and finally ended up as a director of that institute . He said that he had zero control over his destiny.
once infidelity, always infidelity “
only a full purse 👛 makes the mouth 👄 speak
But through “” prayer 🙏 “ one can become 👑 king and it’s my personal experience.
please , those who are decently well read, don’t eat the bait thrown at u by social media.
He further says somewhere that had Ellon Musk been in Ethiopia 🇪🇹 etc where there is no such system of libertarianism; he would never have been Ellon musk .
so dr Vikas is conveying that we are creatures of destiny.
Bulleh shaw ; a great fakir tried to enlighten us through his unmatched poetry that habits or thoughts are difficult to change.
By constantly feeding ur subconscious mind through positive self talk, through gratitude ; by writing everyday positive things; our subconscious mind can do miracles.
can we change our lives through positive thoughts and positive mindset ?
But yes please read it carefully .
ok dear we will be positive but first let me run my auto as I need to pay it’s rent !
people like Kabir are beyond time and space and such people are incomparable and perfect.
And as far as I m concerned , I have written in my profile that I believe in one word “”destiny.”
“”kabir je jumped straight from unfulfilled basic physiological needs to self actualisation making mockery of MASLOW ‘s need hierarchy theory of motivation “”
So it’s difficult for a poor person to think positive or change his thoughts 💭or go for aesthetics and self actualisation.
it means our habits die hard even if you cut urself.
when poverty comes at the door 🚪, love💕 flies out of the window.
just a tear of gratitude 🙏 or love for almighty is enough to bring unthinkable, rare positive changes in ur life .
Without tasting or acquiring money, fame , a beautiful woman ‘s body ; Kabir knew there is not much difference between two state of affairs.
But for an ordinary poor man it’s impossible not to think about money, females etc etc etc